to teach

My son got a offer letter in INFOSYS. This i knew through my wife. Then again he got another offer from Accenture.this also i understood from my wife.
But why he did not tell this to me. it took me to my way of teaching the children lessons.
I have learnt that Girafee kicks its new borns by its hind long feet and the new ones will fall at some distance and with great difficulty it tries to reach its mother. This goes on for a few times and the little ones walk around the mother.
When the child miss school bus. I wont take them to school. I wanted his teacher to scold him so that he is on time thereafter. But my wife gets into and shouts and finally i will take them on my scooter 15 km away and when i go slow the child gets angry saying that i was purposefully slow ( which was not correct).

But what happened is when the child grows up he cuts off the communication line with me.
When he was angry with me for not buying the latest bike..When he grew his hair long to join his Rock Band i did not approve and when he wanted to become a pilot, i felt sorry. In order to keep the blodd pressure low, i was cool when he was talking to his mother of his interviews.

All the while i was praying to GOD.

I was never understood properly.

Was it because i wanted to teach my children the difficult way..i don't know.